How to DM Someone on Discord Without Being Friends?

If you’re wondering how to DM someone on Discord without being friends, keep reading or watch the video below for your answer. And if you’re new and unsure how to message someone on Discord even when you’re already friends, let’s explore that first.

By the way, “DM” stands for “Direct Message.” I just wanted to clear that up in case there was any confusion.

How to Message Someone on Discord?

Messaging someone on Discord when they’re your friend is straightforward. Just go to their profile, click the message icon, and start exchanging messages. But if you’re not friends, I’ve outlined those steps further in this article. Let’s begin with the steps for messaging a friend on Discord.

Step 1: Check your Friend list and click the message icon next to the profile, as shown in the screenshot below:

Clicking will open the DM Box.

Step 2: Start typing your message in the box, similar to what’s displayed in the screenshot below, and hit enter to send it.

That’s it! You can now see how sent and received messages appear in the DM box.

This is how you send messages to someone on Discord if they’re your friend.

Now, let’s delve deeper.

Discord, if you’re not familiar, is a platform designed for gamers to communicate. It allows gamers to connect while playing, offering voice and video call options. But some Discord users wonder how to DM (Direct Message) someone on Discord without being friends, and that’s what we’ll address in today’s post.

What is Discord DM, and How Can You Set it Up?

DMs (Direct Messages) serve as a means for one-on-one communication with your friends or contacts. Twitter’s Direct Message or DM feature exemplifies this functionality. These entail private conversations you engage in with friends and others while gaming on Discord.

Setting up Direct Messages on Discord is effortless as there’s no specific setup required; the functionality is inherently available.

DMs can be a great avenue for banter or playful exchanges while gaming. They also serve as a convenient option for chatting when you can’t use a microphone.

How to DM Someone on Discord without being friends?

By default, on Discord, you can direct message (DM) someone who’s your friend or a member of the same server as you.

Here are the steps to DM someone on Discord:

• Log in to your Discord account.
• Click on “Direct Messages” located on the left side of the app.
• Your friends on Discord will be visible under your friend list. Click on a friend’s name to start a DM.
• You can filter friends by All, Online, or Pending.

However, the key question remains: How to message someone on Discord without adding them as a friend? This situation might arise when you’ve met someone on Discord and want to play a game together but haven’t added them as a friend yet. Can Discord allow this?

Discord sets restrictions to prevent spam and unwanted messages. Members can configure their message settings for privacy and safety under Discord’s account settings. If you’re unsure how to DM someone on Discord without being friends, your contact can make these changes:

• Click the gear icon at the bottom left of the Discord app to access settings.
• In Settings, navigate to “Privacy and Safety” under the “My Account” tab.
• Three message receiving options are available:
  • “Keep Me Safe”: Scans all direct messages.
  • “My Friends Are Nice”: Scans messages from non-friends.
  • “I Live on the Edge”: No message scanning.

If the person you want to DM has the first or second option enabled, you won’t be able to send them a DM unless they change these settings.

There’s another way to DM someone on Discord without being friends: If you’re both members of the same server, you can message them through the server. Here’s how your contact can configure this:

• Follow the previous steps to reach “Privacy and Safety Settings.”
• Enable “Allow Direct Messages from Server Members.”

Note: This setting can’t be changed for a server you’re already in, only for new servers. Once your contact configures this setting, join the server they’re part of, and you’ll be able to DM them within that server.

How to Search for Someone on Discord?

If you’re looking to connect with new people on Discord, searching for and messaging them is a straightforward process. Here’s a guide:

• Access Discord and look for the search bar. Click on it and enter any letter to start.
• You’ll see a list of users, DMs, servers, and channels. Click on any user you’re interested in to view their profile.
• From there, you can attempt to send them a message or send a friend request.

Messaging someone directly can depend on their privacy settings. If they have strict settings, your message might not go through. However, it’s always worth a try. Sometimes, using this search method might help you find the specific person you’re looking for.

How to Join a Server on Discord?

“Now that you’ve learned how to send a DM on Discord without adding someone as a friend, let’s discuss joining a server.

Here’s a simple guide:

• Log in to your Discord account.
• Look for the ‘+’ icon in the left-side menu—it’s for joining a new server.
• You’ll be given the choice to create a new server or join an existing one.
• If you opt to ‘Join a Server,’ enter the invite link and click ‘Join.’
• Once you’re part of the server, the list of members will appear on the right. Scroll through, select the member you want to message, and click on their name. This will give you the option to send them a DM.

This method allows you to message new friends without adding them as a friend on Discord. Discord is a fantastic platform for communication, and these steps should be helpful in DMing someone on Discord without being friends. Feel free to try these steps and share your experiences with us!